What’s On Your Mind?

30 Oct

Even if you Can’t See your Life Plan, It’s there!

We all have a life plan that has already been determined, it is called Destiny and I believe in it!  The reason our lives are referred to as a journey is because we are meant to discover and find our way towards it and if it was revealed to us too soon how would we go through all the challenges, tests and lessons that are meant to shape us into the person we are meant to be to fulfill that destiny?  Sure it would definitely be comforting and convenient to know what’s at the finish line, but learning to navigate your way on your own will build a reserve of strength and character that you may not have realized had you not had to rely on that faith.

What’s in your head can either help or hinder your journey, what are your thoughts about yourself and where you’re going on a daily basis?  What do you think of yourself, really?  What do you think of others?  Do you believe that you are worthy of all this life has to offer you?  What you tell yourself through your thoughts is very powerful whether you realize it or not and the most empowering words you can apply to all your phrases about yourself begin with “I Am”.  It’s a challenge at the beginning to incorporate this “I Am” ritual into your mindset but it’s well worth it and can be life changing.

–          I Am Healthy

–          I Am Worthy

–          I Am Happy

–          I Am Capable

There are so many “I Am” rituals to choose from that you can apply to your life and it really is all about you, the “I Am” thoughts need to be specific to you, whatever you want to attract into your life begins with changing that mindset.

I’ve been at work, been really tired, thinking “I Am” so tired and feeling even more tired because I’ve reinforced and enabled that mindset with my thoughts.  Now obviously if had only 2-3 hours of sleep, for whatever reason, and have to report to my daily grind, it’s definitely difficult to change that around with a thought, but I have been successful at it, although I didn’t realize it at the time.  I was thinking ahead to when it would get to the last hour of the work day and how great that was going to feel, somehow that created and energy that took me out of that really tired place.  Everyone is different so you just need to find a mindset alteration technique that works for you or one that works for someone you know and tweak it specifically to you.

When you allow your life to flow as it is naturally meant to, which I’ve done, not every single minute we all have our moments, but when I remain aware and cognizant of what my body is telling me and when I step out of that field of good energy it’s a matter of hitting the reset button on my mindset.

Create an “I Am” ritual for yourself, something specifically designed for you and where you want your life to go, what you want to experience along the way, what you envision as the final destination and always, always live in appreciation for every lesson, difficult or not, because they are all a part of the journey.


Posted by on October 30, 2012 in Blog


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9 responses to “What’s On Your Mind?

  1. Shelly

    October 31, 2012 at 7:01 am

    Reblogged this on onbeingmindful and commented:
    I woke up crabby and anxious. I’m not claiming those…I AM CALM…I AM RELAXED…I AM CAPABLE!

    • shelleyhallmark

      October 31, 2012 at 10:16 pm

      Thank-You so much for reblogging my post, that’s so kind of you! I can relate to waking up crabby and there’s only one way to go from there and that’s up! Love your “I Am”‘s! Stay Positive, it’s the only way!

  2. rachelmiller1511

    October 31, 2012 at 7:04 am

    Excellent post- very relevant to me today. Thanks.

    • shelleyhallmark

      October 31, 2012 at 10:24 pm

      Thank you for kind words and positive feedback. I’m happy to hear that my post was relevant for you today, I love when that happens! Thanks for following me, I’m looking forward to receiving your posts. 🙂

      • rachelmiller1511

        November 1, 2012 at 6:37 am

        I love the synchronicity too- makes me realise I’m in the right place, the universe is listening and sending me the right help!! Thanks for being the help!!

      • shelleyhallmark

        November 2, 2012 at 11:47 pm

        Synchronicity is exactly it! When I was getting ready for work on Thursday morning I was thinking that exact thought and was going to send you another reply and then 10 minutes later your reply came through with exactly what was on my mind. I believe that we are all universally connected to one another but we’ve all got our individual lives to tend to so we can’t be tuned into everyone all the time but when there is something specific we need the universe answers and helps us through whatever means we are accessing at that time. Thanks so much for letting me the help for that day, I am very honored. 🙂

      • rachelmiller1511

        November 3, 2012 at 3:27 am

        Wow- we must be tuned in on the same wavelength!

  3. Danielle Navonne

    November 1, 2012 at 7:58 am

    Shelley, you know I always love your posts, but this may be my favorite! Love it! I have started and stopped an “I AM” ritual so many times, and so many of the books I’ve been reading lately bring me back to them. I actually started writing a piece about self-talk (which I may post soon). As always, this is right on time for me, and one of the most powerful things we can probably do for ourselves! I’m sharing this with my social media networks:
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    • shelleyhallmark

      November 3, 2012 at 12:07 am

      Danielle, as much as you’re loving my posts, I’m loving your feedback! Whether you realize it or not you always inspire new creative ideas for me to explore, and I am VERY interested in your piece about “self-talk”, you should definitely post it soon. I’ve been using the “I Am” ritual for only a little while and it is amazing how one little alteration can positively change your outlook and reality. Thanks so much for your support and sharing my post with your social media networks, really appreciate it! 🙂


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