We can’t stop things from changing
Everything happens for a reason, and of course that’s not always helpful when the things that happen don’t feel so good emotionally but what can make that emotion worse is not allowing yourself to find the positives. I know! I don’t always see them at the beginning either, in fact sometimes I’m constantly questioning and by doing that I prevent myself from finding the peace and balance that lies in the “in between”.
Luckily for me, anything that isn’t positive feels foreign to me, like a sickness, which is something I just can’t put up with. My stubbornness to have to experience anything like that for too long definitely outweighs my constant questioning and denial so I always find my positive answers and if I’m lucky it doesn’t take me too long to do that. First things first though, I think everyone notices when something doesn’t feel right within and I think our gut instinct always knows what it is but sometimes our egos tend to think they know better and brush off our initial instincts. The best route is to try to change that process as soon as you notice those subtle differences. At first it may take some time to raise that awareness but after a while it will become second nature and next thing you know you are fighting off those awful emotions and finding the good in the situations.
It’s our emotions that will always take us to different areas of our lives and whether or not we want those emotions sometimes doesn’t matter. You can’t change the way you feel so maybe you should try to change the way you are seeing something.
There’s no point in hanging on to the negative side of situations and I know that it can be very difficult to find the positive in some of them but it’s always there, and what good does it do to not find it? You’re not going to feel better in fact you’ll feel worse.
There are so many positive things that we can look forward to and be inspired by in this world. Sure there are also negative things too but I would rather feed the positive and spread that. The more we diffuse and push aside the negative the weaker it will get and the less chance it will have of continuing to grow. It’s what we put out energy into that expands and I would much prefer that what expands for everyone are the positive moments.
It only takes one kind moment to change the course of someone’s day for the better. If we were all striving to be that person imagine how different our days would be.