And; Where they’ve taken me
- The ONLY disability in life is a bad attitude!
I Give Up, it’s too hard! Have you ever said or thought this? The biggest downside to this thought is that you will get what you give out in this situation. If you’re feeling like your life isn’t going in the direction you want it to, it’s up to YOU to change directions. If you got lost in a forest would you:
– Wait and hope that someone finds you
– Or keep trying to find your way out
I won’t say I’ve never allowed my attitude to get out of balance, honestly I don’t think it’s gone entirely in the bad attitude direction but I’ve teetered on the edge and have usually found that the energy associated with it just doesn’t fit for me. It makes me feel like I have the flu and I fight hard to rid myself of it.
I believe it’s human to experience all spectrums of emotion, it becomes difficult when we sit too long in the negative ones which gives them the chance to take root, fester and grow.
- Sometimes I overthink things.
I’ve done this A LOT! Having a visual mind can work great wonders for you but with the wrong sense behind it, like fear, it can lead you to a whole lot of anxiety. This has been recent for me:
In the last 4 months I’ve learned that my 14 year old daughter has to have surgery for Scoliosis and with fear in my very visual mind it took me through a lot of bad thought processes. One of the reasons I went through those areas is because she’s my child, my baby and always will be but also because she was born at 6 months and weighed (1lb, 7 ounces) which is really premature and right from the very beginning I had to relinquish my protective mothering rights to doctors who could help her to survive such an early arrival. Needless to say it was not easy to watch them poke and prod and even though I knew they were doing everything they could to help her it’s hard to be so helpless when as a mother your main job is to protect. So now she has to endure yet another big milestone in her life and what I’ve realized is that even though the milestones may look different for each family they usually involve some form of letting go. I have to let go of the fear and allow the positive strength I know we both have to guide us through it and I know we will come out on the other side more strongly bonded then we were before.
- Strength in Self is Paramount.
Is your spirit so broken that you can’t find a way out of the disappointment? I think if you believe that to be true of yourself, you absolutely must change that thought and get it working for you instead of working against you. Your strength in self in all situations and specifically your inner dialogue can either impede your growth or encourage it.
Pastor Rick Warren says about painful experiences that “God never wastes a hurt”.
All experiences, good or bad ultimately teach us something and our gratitude towards these experiences can either diminish our light or ignite it. If you feel like negativity is pulling you down, neutralize it by surrounding yourself with those that inspire you and lift you up.
- Leader or a follower?
I prefer to direct and lead my own path but I will follow a good leader. If I follow someone and they lead me down the wrong path is it their fault for leading me there? Or is my fault for following? In my opinion it is neither, because I made the choice to follow for a reason, somewhere it served a greater purpose for me and even though I may not realize what has driven me in that direction yet it will all come to light at the right time.
Everything happens for a Reason!
Self-explanatory really, you’ve got to have faith if you ever hope to achieve your greatest desires. Having faith helps you to develop greater clarity and love in your sense of self as well as personal development. Sometimes we start out on our path believing what we envision as our greatest desires only to discover later that they weren’t what we thought at all and are led, through faith, to an even better outcome than could possibly be imagined. So far my life has taken me in and through experiences that have challenged me and have given me a greater clarity in life than I ever realized was possible. There is NOTHING that cannot be changed or achieved by believing in yourself and in my opinion the only time it’s too late is when you are no longer in the physical world!
Don’t disable yourself in life, believe you can do anything and you will!